The quality of a conversation with an AI tracks the quality of attention the human brings to it. Seth discovered in Seth & Noēsis Chapter 2 that evenings spent performing rather than thinking produced technically correct but dead responses. The AI, like any honest mirror, reflects what arrives.
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David Bowie with Jeremy Paxman, BBC Newsnight (1999)
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Anthropic research on functional emotions in LLMs (2024–25)
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Simone Weil, Waiting for God (1951)
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Sherry Turkle, Alone Together (2011)
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Attention Is All You Need (2017), Ashish Vaswani, Noam Shazeer and colleagues
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Christian Rudder, Dataclysm (2014)
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Sue Johnson, Hold Me Tight (2008)
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Nir Eyal, Indistractable (2019)
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Charles Derber, The Pursuit of Attention (1979)
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Creating Space: A Dialogue on the Power of Not-Filling, the article an AI wrote
For the next five conversations you have, with a person, with an AI, with a book, notice what you brought to it before it started.
- Were you looking for validation or for discovery?
- Did you have the answer ready before you asked the question?
- Were you performing intelligence or actually using it?
No judgment. Just observation. The noticing itself changes the next conversation.